tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8189321271545893193.post8619577082260794526..comments2023-06-30T16:07:17.325+01:00Comments on What now?: DebriefingJ-in-Waleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02390582364341730481noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8189321271545893193.post-6617999925002765392009-10-03T16:37:10.515+01:002009-10-03T16:37:10.515+01:00Anonymous - Thank you so much for your kind words ...Anonymous - Thank you so much for your kind words and reassurance. It must have been so hard for you, bringing a child into the world without your husband by your side.<br />It really does help to know that the memories won't fade over time.J-in-Waleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02390582364341730481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8189321271545893193.post-78847364206754318482009-10-03T16:34:01.201+01:002009-10-03T16:34:01.201+01:00@ Boo: Sorry I haven't been around much. Haven...@ Boo: Sorry I haven't been around much. Haven't really had anything much to say. I have a big case of the blahs today, but I'm hoping tomorrow will be better.J-in-Waleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02390582364341730481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8189321271545893193.post-34295923452288166272009-10-01T18:52:56.649+01:002009-10-01T18:52:56.649+01:00My husband died, suddenly, November 19, 1963. He ...My husband died, suddenly, November 19, 1963. He was 32. I was 29, and pregnant. The life that happened after that certainly wasn't the life we planned, but it was nonetheless good. With enough years, the sorrow fades, but the memories are always there. Hang in- it gets easier.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8189321271545893193.post-74667245955017889132009-09-29T22:59:12.005+01:002009-09-29T22:59:12.005+01:00you haven't posted a while. You did check on ...you haven't posted a while. You did check on me, and now I am checking on you :-) Will be home tomorrow, so will call you Thursday, or call me if you like :-) xxxxBoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10695496303699631884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8189321271545893193.post-76252856423315570752009-09-18T00:17:41.722+01:002009-09-18T00:17:41.722+01:00J, it hits a little at a time, the things that we ...J, it hits a little at a time, the things that we miss. as each discovery of what it means to not have him here anymore, i have to add it to the inventory of what i'll have to learn to accept, or relearn to deal with.<br /><br />i feel similar pangs along the lines of what you've written of. as a couple you had a routine and now it's washing over you again and again of how things have changed. i'm sorry Friday nights have irrevocably changed. i'm sorry Boo hates the weekends as well. i feel for us - all the losses we've had to endure. now that i know that the weekends are rough for you, i will keep you especially in my thoughts during those times.<br /><br />~ peace alwaysabandonedsoulshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06020499806998154330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8189321271545893193.post-44316264185272969672009-09-17T17:03:51.417+01:002009-09-17T17:03:51.417+01:00J - I know. It's the little things isn't ...J - I know. It's the little things isn't it? It's always the little things. And to hear his voice ... and the smile in his voice. It's funny that the iron really underlined the fact that you couldn't today. The little things! At the last offsite business meeting, I was DREADING going back to my room at the hotel because I couldn't call Cliff. Even tho I was only away for one night, I'd miss him and we'd be on the phone for 45 minutes ... sounds like we could talk as easily as you and R could ... that closeness is a rare and precious thing. Feeling that at ease with someone. God, I HATE weekends. (p.s. I am out this evening and all weekend at school reunion - eek ... had to dye my hair but will call you next week, it will be nice to have a chat xxx)Boohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10695496303699631884noreply@blogger.com